So here is the thing.
My sister has autism. She is aware she has it, but doesn't really think much about it since –surprise – it's not a big deal to us.
She's 20 years old, can do a lot of things herself, but sometimes has the mindset of a younger child. She can't read, she can't tell the clock and has trouble with new situations and social gatherings. She can however, shower herself, eat without help, get dressed, brush her teeth, draw, sing, talk, make simple food (bread with something) and other stuff like that. She doesn't need help going to the bathroom and she's not afraid of going shopping as long as someone else helps